Empty Hard Disk
Just now my aunt was talking to DenDen, telling him how good or bad some people (relatives) are. I told her not to do that anymore because DenDen is just a baby, his new hard disk is empty, ready to store data. I feel strongly that he should be given a chance to decide for himself what's good, what's bad, instead of letting other people's experiences affect him.
For adults, we are easily affected by what people say or gossiped. We judge base on what we hear. Come to think of it, is it fair?



1 Comments:
At 5:17 AM,
Lynnette said…
very true.. although your son is so young.. and probably can't understand what she's saying. But negativity is a spirit. and negativity breeds negativity.
i dont' think aunties are ill meaning.. but maybe they don't see the side effect. What if Jayden grows up thinking that all those "bad" talk is alright? In fact, it's not right for a kid to bare the weight of her frustration..
maybe your aunt just needs a listening ear.. could be a good time to meet her needs and minister to her..
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